Always start from the neck.
Every woman loves the tingling, body-shuddering, goose pimples-eliciting, otherwordly sensation that courses through the body as it responds to the feel of the teeth (be subtle guys, this is not BDSM… just bite gingerly), as it also responds to the feel of the tip of the tongue, as it gallivants around the skin of the neck.
As soon as you’re rewarded with moans and gasps, go into multi-task mode.
Continue with the neck activity while fondling the nipple, obviously, with your index finger and your thumb. Almost every woman would get turned-on if you fondle two pleasure spots at the same time.
At this point, it’s important to note that when it comes to sexual intercourse and love-making, it’s a woman’s world.
God blessed you with two hands, so it’s important that they come in handy while having sex, so as you’re nibbling on her neck and caressing her nipple (which should be erect and fully firm after 5 minutes of multi-tasking) with your ‘right hand’, slide your left hand down to her *pink warm haven* region and massage the temple and camel toe.
With the mouth working on the neck, the right hand on her nipple, the left hand hunting for wetness down below, temporarily remove the hand from the nipple and use it to guide her hand to your penis.
Once contact is achieved, no guidance is needed. A handjob is learned on the job, not taught.
So while you’re giving her body a ‘threesome of sexual pleasures’ and she’s straddling your penis, utility becomes mutual, but for the woman, pleasure is four-fold.
The most common reason why many men can’t last beyond 10-15 minutes during sexual intercourse is because they are often times in a rush to get there, to hit the g-spot, to climax and attain that ultimate satisfaction.
But this defeats the purpose of the entire sexual experience.
To avoid this common scenario, when you’re at the ‘threesome of sexual pleasure’ stage, allow it to ensue for another 5-7minutes, after which you proceed to make your mouth useful on the breasts.
The breasts are like the owners themselves; they are jealous and they love attention, so you have to stop all other activity and concentrate on making her get to the promised land.
Suck the breast, nibble on them for as long as you can, till you begin to see unbridled gasps.
When she’s at the peak of pleasure, she’s in a giving-mood, so gently guide her head down to your penis and give her a mouthful, provided she’s willing.
By this time, foreplay has lasted for almost 20 minutes and after about 5-7 more minutes of getting a head, you can reciprocate the gesture, if it’s your thing.
Love-making shouldn’t be monotonous and mundane, so before the penetration, get her back in the mood by spending 2 minutes roaming around her body- every part, every sensitive spot, every tender region and when you’re both at the optimum yearn-point, gently use the cap of your erect penis to rub her *pink warm haven* region.
Do this for 2 minutes and then gradually thrust into her *pink warm haven*.
Your sexual position is your preference and from experience, every sexual position is pleasurable.
Don’t be too fast for a start. Go easy- back and forth- until the road is smooth and more welcoming. Then thrust continuously.
Before you increase the pace of your thrust, be certain to ask for permission to go faster, and 10 out of 10 times, you’ll get an affirmative answer.
*To be continued