Ask WIN: If you were in her position, what would you do?

When you have got issues pertaining to your relationship or marriage, you can always send us a mail and we shall throw the issue open for a discourse here on WIN (Wedding In Nigeria).

We thereby kick off the ‘Ásk WIN’section with this issue from the ‘Humans of New York’instagram page.

“I saw the text messages from other women before we got married. My parents warned me but I married him anyway, without their permission. I thought he’d change. Now he leaves for days at a time. He tells me: ‘Calm down. It’s nothing. They come and go. But I live with you.’ But I can’t calm down. I think about it all the time. Whenever he’s out, I think about it. I try to keep busy and calm my mind but it’s gotten so bad that I’m seeing a doctor.” (Rasht, Iran)

A photo posted by Humans of New York (@humansofny) on Aug 21, 2015 at 10:58am PDT