Relationship Mattaz: 12 things Men secretly adore in the Woman they Love


Love is a strange emotion that is beyond human wisdom. Although relationship therapy has made strides in redefining love, there is a lot that is yet to be discovered with regards to this complicated emotion.

That is why we聽 are introducing the WIN Relationship Mattaz, a column where we shall bring you relationship stuffs 馃檪

When a man is in love with a woman, there are certain things they adore in them that a woman may or may not be aware of.

The following are some of the attributes that men adore in the women they are in love with.

鈥 Sense of Humor

Men love it when they can exploit your sense of humor. He loves it when he makes you smile even if he is cracking dumb jokes.

Clear View

He loves how you display clear thoughts regarding your future. He likes your maturity because you are both ambitious and have a clear plan. This quality gives them assurance that you will get him back on track when he is lost.

鈥 Physical Contact

Men love being physical with women. Men enjoy physical acts of affection more than sex. This includes little things like when a girl sneaks in random kisses on the cheek, random hugs, places their hand on their man鈥檚 knee or their arm around their man.

鈥 Secret Glances

Men love attention and like it when you sneak a glance at them. It proves to a man that they are attractive and that you long for them. He likes catching you eye balling him.

鈥 Funny Gestures

Relationship counseling will reveal that a man loves it when you do certain funny gestures like crinkling your nose when laughing and playing with their hair when you are nervous. These are the attributes that distinguish you from all the other women he has ever met.

鈥 Respectful

He will be more accommodating and nice to you when you speak with a soft and low voice. This proves to them that you consider them as superior and as your source of security.

鈥 Sensitive

He adores it when you are reserved, sensitive and shy.

鈥 Independence and Emotional Strength

One of the most common relationship advice is that men do not like it when a woman is insecure and lacks confidence. He likes the substance and confidence you display. Self confidence is one of the features that men adore most in a woman.

鈥 Improved Looks

Men are attracted to what they see. He cannot resist your beauty. The way you walk, talk, act and dress all factors in your general physical appearance. One thing you will learn in relationship therapy is that he likes it when you surprise him with new looks.

鈥 Attractive Body

He adores your attractive body and sharp features. He is proud of dating an attractive woman and likes being the envy of other men.

鈥 Beauty with Brains

Another piece of relationship advice is that he loves beauty with brains. He considers you to be complete because you are both beautiful and intelligent. Men need support and guidance when making important decisions in life. This is the reason they like you for your intellect and wisdom.

鈥 Loving

When you attend relationship counseling, your counselor might ask you whether you show enough affection towards your man. Men like how you pamper and appreciate them. Sometimes referring to him by names like 鈥榟oney鈥, 鈥榙arling鈥, 鈥榮weet heart鈥, will make him feel wanted.

Ada Igboanugo

Fashion Enthusiast.

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