What is for you will always be for you! We broke up several times, he left me to propose to another woman but here we are! – Paris & Dominic’s story

This love story you are about to read will get you seated till the very end!

“What is for you will always be for you”! Paris and Dominic’s love is a living testament of that statement.

Their story as told by Paris

#WeddingInNigeria Aww, Read this sweet love story!😍💍 Groom: @dom_3113 Bride: @Parislesley “What is for you will always be for you”! Our love is a living testament of that statement. I will keep it brief as my wedding page will have the full story. But just a brief synopsis.. We started talking in 2005/2006 and I would stunt on him like any young immature girl would. Year after year he would say I am going to be his wife. He went as far as coming to my door step once. But still young and immature Paris would just giggle and ignore him when I felt like it. _____________________________________ Fastfwd a couple of years, where would we be “on then off” he ended up proposing to another young lady and I just considered him “dead” in my life. But what is meant for you will always be for you. Unfortunately for them they were the wrong pieces to their own love puzzle, So they separated (during this time I paid Tmobile to block him)..lmaoo yup I’m an extremist . I on the other hand had just lost my dad and was closer than ever to God. Sept 2013 at 10pm. The Lord directed me to write a full list of what I wanted Physically, spiritually, and emotionally in a man(I still have that list). I did so and posted it on my wall and began to pray every night concerning it. I had no real prospects and didn’t know where God would send me my King Charming. From Sep to Dec I constantly prayed, not from a place of desperation, but from a place of “I know there is great blessing for me in my marriage.” _____________________________________ December came around and nothing. I kept vigilant. Fastfwd Feb 14th 2014, Dominic contacted me on facebook (as I had blocked him on my phone..lol) I gave him a pretty hard time. But as a Man of God his prayers to God were working and the Lord melted my heart of stone for him. Fast fwd to Feb 14th 2015. He Proposed!!! We been through the struggle and back. #ShesaidYes Via @TheShadeRoomInc #Sweetproposal

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We started talking in 2005/2006 and I would stunt on him like any young immature girl would. Year after year he would say I am going to be his wife. He went as far as coming to my door step once. But still young and immature Paris would just giggle and ignore him when I felt like it.

Fastforward to a couple of years, where would we be “on then off” he ended up proposing to another young lady and I just considered him “dead” in my life. But what is meant for you will always be for you. Unfortunately for them they were the wrong pieces to their own love puzzle, So they separated (during this time I paid Tmobile to block him)..lmaoo yup I’m an extremist. I on the other hand had just lost my dad and was closer than ever to God.

July 27th 2007, Under the leadership of my Spiritual Father Pastor Yeboah I gave my life to Christ. I always thought I knew Christ, becasue I went to church everyday with my parents & I use to say “Thank you Lord for waking me up”. Well I was wrong, I didn’t have a personal relationship with Christ. But that faithful day through the ministry of my spiritual father I gave it all to Christ. When I lifted my hands& uttered those words “I accept Christ and my personal saviour”, A voice came to me, which was the Holy Spirit asking me what I wanted, oddly enough not really knowing what was happening I whispered back. “I never want to have a broken heart, especially not because of a man. I told God to take my heart and never allow me to give it to anyone, and that He alone should release it when the time is right”. After that day, I was pretty much unimpressed by any guy.

Now don’t get me wrong, I talked to a few guys, but they can even attest that I was pretty cold hearted. My friends would call me a man eater, My parents wondered why I never introduced them to any guy, everyone around me would question me as to why a decent girl like me doesn’t have a man. I never really explained what took place. I just laughed. I knew what I had saw amongst my aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends. I was determined to not go through that. I had a great example of a wife and husband right in my home, what a blessing. This man came into my life 2005 I swerved him, He ended up in a serious relationship and almost got married. I wasnt moved nor bothered because God hadn’t released my heart to love just yet. He wanted me to deal with myself, my commitment issues, my arrogance, my slick tongue, my overly aggressive nature. He had to break and mold me. He had to let me come to terms with the fact that my aunt’s, cousins,& uncle’s stories would not be my story. He dealt with me accordingly. I was humbled.

Sept 2013 at 10pm. The Lord directed me to write a full list of what I wanted Physically, spiritually, and emotionally in a man(I still have that list). I did so and posted it on my wall and began to pray every night concerning it. I had no real prospects and didn’t know where God would send me my King Charming. From Sep to Dec I constantly prayed, not from a place of desperation, but from a place of “I know there is great blessing for me in my marriage.”


December came around and nothing. I kept vigilant. Fastfwd Feb 14th 2014, Dominic contacted me on facebook (as I had blocked him on my phone..lol) I gave him a pretty hard time. But as a Man of God his prayers to God were working and the Lord melted my heart of stone for him. Fast fwd to Feb 14th 2015. He Proposed!!!

Now they are happily married!

To God be the Glory! Great things he has done! #Theoseilovestory #flashbackfriday #wedding #essencebride #munabride

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To God be the Glory! Great things he has done! #Theoseilovestory #flashbackfriday #wedding #essencebride #munabride

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"Dear Miss Paris,I am a 32 yr old man from Belize,I saw ur story from the shaderoom some months ago& been following ya before. I was actually in the U.S. at the time (back in Belize) and was on yuh& ya husby prayerline.I gave my life to Christ, through yuh guys. I have been inna relationship with mi gyal for about 3 yrs. We were sexually intimate, but after I gave my life to Christ and started reading the word, I stopped. She must ah thought I was cheating on her and she caused a scene inna mi yard. I told her let's pray about our relationship, and the Lord spoke to mi and said she is not di one. Now I am waiting for God to show mi who is. I thank yuh and ur husby for showing us wat yute purity ah look lyke. Thanks sis. Bless up to yuh and ur husby". ————————————————— Wow! I love some of the emails I get, but this is my fav! Before I got married I wouldn't be caught dead posting or associating myself with a man on social media or even in public. During the time I was preparing for marriage the Lord said to my husband and I that in addition to what HE will give us. He will give us a marriage ministry to accompany it. Since that day I was not afraid to share as I knew God would equip and protect my husband and I as we exposed what God is doing in our love lives. I encourage you to keep your love life and private life PRIVATE, unless the Lord tells you to do otherwise. I remember being so private with my love life my friends would call me a nun. I didn't want to be embarassed, I didnt need everyone in my business. But the day the Lord spoke and said "your marriage is PRIMARILY to win souls for me", He released me of that fear! Today I want to encourage you, whatever your ministry is LIVE OUT LOUD FOR CHRIST! If it's music, if you cut hair, if your a nail tech, if your a doctor, if your a sales manager idc what it is. If the Lord gives you the "go ahead" Go for it. And do whatever it is to glorify God and win souls!! If your ministry is healing, keep posting and sharing on the miracles of healing, if it's marriage or keeping pure for Christ till marriage.GO FOR IT! Live Fabulously and UNAPOLEGETICALLY FOR CHRIST! -The Osei's!#love

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Idk if he had me at "Hello" Or when I found out he was humble but full of life. Idk if it was when he first told me back in 2006 that I would be his wife Idk if it was when I started talking to him and my prayerlife skyrocketed even more, or when he would dissect the bible to me Idk if it was when I curved him with my pride and after situationships happened and people came back to tell me how much he loved me Idk if it was when a friend did ME dirty and he told ME to go apologize and be at peace with all men. Idk if it's when my family instantly fell in love with him, or when my sister said he reminded her of our dad. Idk if its when he said that my school debt was now his issue. Idk if its when he said he wasnt going to get ordained until, I was by his side as a wife. Idk if its when He took me all around the world or when he showed me how safe his arm were. Idk if it's when he diffused a situation and commanded peace in the situation. Idk if it's when he made me laugh for an hr and I had to run to go pee. Idk if it's when He dropped on one knee and gave me a rock. Idk if it was when He told his friends that I'm his partner in everything. Idk if it was when he was more concerned about the well being of my family. Idk if it's when I saw him hit the gym and realized the man of steel he his.. Idk if it's when he refused to have sex with me before marriage. Idk if it's when he infused me with his peaceful nature. Idk if it's when he told me to watch out for snakes. Idk if it's when we both purposed to build something for God together. Idk if it's when he taught me how to actually loose weight(working on it). Idk if it's when, I became so scared to share my story and he pressed "post" on fb for me. Idk if it was when he prayed for me. Idk what it is.But whatever it is Im happy God gave me this man.He wont allow me to go to hell.He wont allow me to severe ties.He wont allow me to cry.He wont allow me to beat my self up.He wont allow me to be self righteous.He wont allow me to waste what god has given me.He wont allow me to be WACK! He's my rider.My bff.My cup of joe.My "Le" to my "Bron".Hes my regular degular schmegular movie buddy. #naturalhair

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